Fertility Counseling
When growing a family wasn’t as easy as you had anticipated,
A fertility therapist can help.
You’ve always envisioned becoming a parent, and you thought it would happen easily. For many, the path to conception involves unexpected hurdles. The realization that conceiving won’t be as simple as you hoped can bring emotional upheaval, impacting your identity and life goals. As a fertility therapist specializing in fertility counseling, I understand the profound effect that infertility can have on your life and relationships.
The journey through infertility can feel lonely. Sharing your struggles with friends and family may feel impossible, and though they may want to help, they might not fully grasp what you’re going through. I understand that the challenges of infertility can feel insurmountable at times. Medical procedures, complex decisions, and the constant cycle of hope and heartbreak take a toll on your mental wellbeing. You may find yourself experiencing anxiety, self-doubt, or even guilt. You may be experiencing trauma as a result of miscarriages or other reproductive trauma. I am a trauma therapist, and I use EMDR to treat reproductive trauma. EMDR can be a very effective tool in clearing the trauma that may be holding you back from moving forward on your reproductive journey. A fertility therapist can provide essential support and understanding to help you navigate these overwhelming emotions. You don’t have to carry the weight of these emotions alone. As an infertility therapist, I provide a supportive environment that’s focused on you, offering an empathetic space for sharing and healing
As a Postpartum Therapist in California, I offer many services utilizing evidence-based treatments. Some services at Shameless Mama Wellness include treatment for postpartum depression and postpartum anxiety, birth trauma therapy, therapy for miscarriage and loss, pregnancy therapy and treatment for NICU PTSD.
Online therapy available to new moms in California.
Common Topics in Fertility Therapy
Every journey is different, and as a fertility therapist, I tailor our sessions to fit your unique situation. In fertility counseling, we often explore topics such as:
Managing the emotional impact of infertility
Coping with relationship strain
Addressing concerns during repeated IUI/IVF cycles
Navigating secondary infertility or fertility preservation
Exploring alternative family-building options, including adoption or third-party reproduction
Making decisions around child-free living
Reaching out to an infertility therapist can provide relief and clarity as you face the emotional complexities of infertility. Whether you attend sessions alone or with a partner, my role as a fertility therapist is to help you manage stress, work through emotional challenges, and restore balance in your life. Fertility counseling is not about fixing the situation, but about empowering you to cope with the challenges and make empowered choices.
A Fertility Therapist will help you:
Understand and processes the complex emotions infertility can bring
Strengthen your relationship with your partner or support person
Explore and prepare for various infertility treatment options
Learn mind-body techniques to manage the stress associated with fertility treatments
Build resilience to maintain a positive quality of life during your fertility journey
Fertility Counseling can help
A Fertility Therapist Will Support you through Every Stage of your Journey.
Infertility is challenging, yet no two journeys look the same. Whether you’re pursuing IVF, adoption, surrogacy, or another path, my goal as a fertility therapist is to provide the support, empathy, and understanding you need. Let's work together to define a family-building path that resonates with you, allowing you to move forward with confidence and strength.
Alternative Paths to Parenthood
As a fertility therapist, I work with clients pursuing various family-building paths, including adoption and third-party reproduction. The decision to use surrogacy, a donor, or to adopt brings a unique set of emotions and requires specific support. Fertility counseling can help you process these options, find clarity, and establish your own family-building journey.
In these sessions, we might address:
Grieving the loss of a genetic connection to your child
Deciding on surrogacy or donor options
Managing the adoption process
Preparing to discuss your family’s unique story with friends, family, and your child
Plese read the following article about some of the emotional difficulties many woman face when navigating fertility challenges:
Marilyn Cross Coleman Of Shameless Mama Wellness On Navigating the Challenges of Infertility and IVF
“We must accept finite disappointment, but never lose infinite hope.”
— Dr. Martin Luther Kind, Jr.